At 31 years of age, I have my first boyfriend. 

That’s a weird and almost embarrassing thing to say. 

I’m a late bloomer I was too shy around the opposite sex as a teen and even in my early twenties. 

I didn’t kiss a man until I was 20.

So dating wasn’t an option.  

In spite of this, I’ve slept with men, I’ve gone on dates with men, I’ve been in weird fucked up relationships with men, but I’ve never had an actual boyfriend until now. 

 We had our first date at the beginning of October and we made it facebook official a couple of months ago.

The thing is, I hadn’t told my parents about him, because, well, I was nervous. 

My father has facebook and liked my relationship announcement and subsequent posts about my boyfriend but never brought it up and neither did I. 

Until yesterday when he asked me if there was anything I wanted to tell him. So we finally talked about him and now he wants to meet him.

I’m 31 and I’m nervous about my dad meeting my first boyfriend.